I owe Carmi Cimicata a big thank you for the care package of vintage photos she mailed to me last week. Let me tell you, it acted just like catnip to my Leo senses—I think I actually meowed.
Anyway, in amongst the pictures Carmi sent me was this one of a baby with the face and posture of a grown up, and written on the back was “Byron Blackthorn Hawksridge 2nd, Aged 10 months.” Yes, I know it sounds like the name of a hero in a romance novel, and while Byron is actually the baby’s first name, I changed the other two to preserve his privacy. But his middle and last name are actually more interesting than the ones I chose for him.
The reason I want to protect his identity is because I decided to do a web search for him after talking to Mary. (Mary Ambrose—in case you don’t know it—has her private investigator’s license, a feat she accomplished while she was pregnant with her son Hayden).
Now where was I? Oh yes, so I did a search for Byron, and first found his namesake and grandfather who was born in 1835, hated his name Jedediah and changed it to Byron. To make a long story short, through an obituary, I eventually tracked down one of Byron II’s daughters in the U.S. and offered to send her the photo of her dad. She was thrilled to hear that there was a baby picture of him in existence. Between us, we figured out that the photo was probably taken in 1918 and sent to a Canadian relative by Byron’s mother in Maine. Naturally I’d like to know more about Byron (who was an engineer), but I didn’t want to seem pushy.
What was gratifying to me about this experience was not only to find out there was a real person behind one of the images I like to work with, but that I was also to be able to send Byron’s three daughters a precious memento of their dad. So thank you Carmi for this heart-warming experience. I couldn’t alter Byron’s image though. Somehow it didn’t seem right.
12 comments:
It's always great to see your blog show up in my reader. And what a great story you have here.
Great story, great photograph. I'm with you 100% on not altering the image; this one is so special just the way it is. I'm sure the family members are ecstatic that it's surfaced, safe and sound.
==lennie==
What an amazing story. Quite the investigation too. I love his little feet sticking out. It also makes me realize that boys did wear dresses in those days. There is one of my Dad like this and I sort of wondered about it. Same circa. Wonderful post. His family must be just SO excited.
How wonderful Susie-Q--I don't think many people would have taken the time and have the thoughtfulness to follow this story through. All inspired by one engaging photograph. Pam xo
You see! You can be a private investigator too!
Mary A.
So amazing,
Thanks for sharing this, and how lucky for you. When i use photos in my work, i often feel a bit sad that there is no name, no nothing attached to them, and yet, it also gives me hope to give them a new life. So, this story is special. As are you! I hope to see you soon. l.
Susan this is a great post! guess I will go back and look thru all my cabinet cards! alas, I do not have a PI to assist in the search! LOL!!
Well I could really do some selling after this, be sure your photo's have names and dates on them, so someone doesn't buy "an uncle" I have a real problem buying photos to play with, I love it when they are done, but just can't bring myself to buy them. But look how wonderful this all turned out. I knew there was a reason why I like the two of you (Carmi and Susan)(not just fo r your wonderful art) you are two caring ladies. Way to go!
HOLY COW I can't believe you guys figured out who Byron was!!! That is just unbelievable!
That is such great news! I just knew that you would do something with the pictures!
What an amazing story this is. :)
Your heartwarming experience, makes a heartwarming story to share. Thank you for sharing it with us!
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